Tuesday, February 24, 2026

Do Hard Things, by Steve Magness

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Magness challenges the typical view of toughness and argues that society often confuses toughness with harshness, emotional suppression, intimidation, and control. Instead, he offers a new model of toughness built around facing reality, listening to the body, responding instead of reacting, and transcending discomfort.  


The author contrasts two models of toughness. The old model is represented by authoritarian coaching, fear-based leadership, and “push through at all costs” thinking. Magness rejects that as shallow and often harmful. Real toughness, in his view, is not pretending pain or fear are absent. It is learning to stay aware, calm, and intentional under pressure.  


Magness uses of examples from sports, military training, neuroscience, psychology, and his own athletic experience. One major idea he presents is that toughness must be trained through skill, awareness, and stress exposure, not through abuse or humiliation. The person learns to feel discomfort, create space, and make a better decision.  


He gives the reader four pillars from which to achieve this toughness - 


1. Ditch the facade and embrace realityTough people accurately assess what is happening instead of hiding behind false confidence or bravado.


2. Listen to your bodyEmotions and physical sensations are not enemies. They are information that help us make better decisions.


3. Respond instead of reactToughness means creating space between stimulus and response so we can act wisely instead of impulsively.


4. Transcend discomfortPurpose, meaning, autonomy, competence, and connection help people endure hardship without being crushed by it.


The big takeaway is - Real toughness is not calloused indifference. It is honest awareness, emotional maturity, flexible response, and purpose-driven endurance.


Thursday, December 25, 2025

Keller on Quiet Times, Mysticism, and the Priceless Payoff of Prayer


https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/tim-keller-on-prayer/

Tim Keller explores prayer not as a "quiet time" ritual or mere spiritual duty, but as a biblically grounded encounter with God that fuses theology with real experience. He pushes beyond common evangelical patterns of devotional time, urging believers to move from a head-only study of Scripture into meditation that turns truth into adoration, confession, and supplication. A key point is that prayer should deepen our communion with God by shaping our affections, not just informing our minds. The Gospel Coalition

Keller emphasizes that prayer in Jesus's name isn't simply a verbal ending to our petitions. Rather, it acknowledges that we come before the Father only by Christ's mediation, standing in humility but also confidence in his righteousness. Praying in our own name, by contrast, assumes God should hear us because of our own merit rather than Christ's. The Gospel Coalition

On struggle and distraction in prayer, he points to biblical meditation—filling the mind with Scripture to steady the heart and affections—over emotionally driven or vague contemplative techniques. Prayer isn't first about emotional payoff, but about faithful regularity rooted in the gospel, even when joy feels distant. The Gospel Coalition

Overall, Keller invites Christians to rethink prayer as both deep theological reflection and humble, persistent communion with God, centered on Christ, shaped by Scripture, and lived out not just in quiet times but in a transformed life on our knees. The Gospel Coalition


Think Out, Work In, Pray Up

First, think out your theology. Know what you believe and why.

Second, work in your theology. It requires honesty to wrestle down a restless heart.

Third, pray up your theology. Learn the art of turning theology into prayer, letting it trigger adoration, confession, and supplication.


""Do those things," he advises, "and your theology will intersect with your experience." Those who are inclined, whether from doctrinal formation or natural temperament, to elevate feelings over theology are planting their feet in midair. But theologically minded believers should likewise beware. "The irony," Keller warns, "is that many conservative Christians, most concerned about conserving true and sound doctrine, neglect the importance of prayer and make no effort to experience God—which can lead to the eventual loss of sound doctrine.""

— Tim Keller on the Christian Life: The Transforming Power of the Gospel by Matt Smethurst
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Sunday, November 30, 2025

Undeniable, by Cameron Hanes



Great book to listen to on some long treks. I've listened to some of his podcasts and guest interviews and knew he was a 68 years old serious ultramarathoner, but didn't know his accomplishments as an elite backcountry bow hunter. That's some real man stuff!!

While holding a full-time job for 25 years, he trained intensively, and built his brand. 

Cameron's Foundational Principles

Discipline beats motivation. Daily, repeatable habits create high performance.

Effort compounds. The small, unglamorous tasks done every day build mastery.

Obsession is a virtue. Becoming great requires a willingness to pursue a calling with unusual intensity.

Suffering produces strength. Hardship, pain, and failure forge mental toughness and character.

Purpose fuels endurance. Knowing why you push yourself sustains the grind long after excitement fades.

Consistency creates credibility. Being reliable, steady, and always improving earns respect and opportunities.

Hanes' slogan is KEEP HAMMERING



Sunday, November 16, 2025

Finish Line Leadership, by Dave Kraft

"What would you like me to talk about?" Dave asked.

Dave Kraft, author and executive coach, spoke at an event I co-hosted recently and that's the question he asked me regarding his upcoming talk.

My response was "chapter 1, of Finish Line Leadership."


In Chapter 1, The One Foundation for Everything, Kraft establishes the foundational truth that Christian leadership must be rooted in Christ alone. He frames leadership as a race, not a short sprint, but a ultramarathon that demands endurance, character, and dependence on Jesus. 


He argues that many leaders stumble not because of lack of skill or vision, but because their foundation is built on achievement, role, or performance rather than on the person and presence of Christ. Kraft challenges his readers to examine where their identity and power come from: are they leading out of their gifts, accolades, or position, or out of a sustained relationship with Jesus? 


He emphasizes that everything else (purpose, passion, priorities, values, execution) rests on this foundation. Without it, the rest of the journey becomes vulnerable to drift, burnout, or collapse. The chapter closes with reflective questions inviting leaders to assess the solidity of their foundation.

At the end of each chapter, Dave gives three questions for reflection, discussion, and application. 

The foundation of real leadership is Jesus applied. He, Jesus, gives us so many commands throughout his word. Dallas Willard felt we should have green lettering to go with the red lettering in our Bibles. 

Green, for Go and Do. 


To that end…..


Thank you Jesus for your word. I pray I receive that word, apply that word, and transformed by the knowledge and application.



Sunday, November 9, 2025

Just So Something, by Kevin DeYoung



In his book Just Do Something Kevin DeYoung challenges the hesitation that often masquerades as holiness. Many believers pray endlessly for signs and certainty, waiting for God to reveal a detailed plan before taking a step. DeYoung insists that while prayer is vital, it is not a substitute for obedience or responsibility. God's will, he reminds us, is not a hidden code to be cracked but a revealed calling to live faithfully within His Word.

A revealed calling to live

Prayer, then, is meant to align the heart with God's purposes, not to delay faithful action. When we pray for wisdom, as James 1:5 commands, God grants discernment to act in ways consistent with Scripture. DeYoung writes, "Pray hard, then take a risk." Faith is proven in motion; when we trust that if we are seeking first the kingdom of God, our steps will be ordered even if we cannot see the full path. Proverbs and Psalms talks about how we make plans, God establishes our steps. 

Pray hard and take a risk

This perspective liberates me from the fear of making the "wrong" decision. The focus shifts from "What should I do?" to "Who am I becoming?" As DeYoung puts it, we should pray less for God to show us the right job or spouse and more to become the kind of person who honors Him in every decision.

Become the right kind of person

In truth, prayer and action belong together. We pray to stay dependent, and we act to stay obedient. When our hearts are yielded to God's will, our movement becomes worship, and in moving, we discover His faithful guidance along the way.

Prayer and action belong together

DeYoung debunks the 'looking for God's will pattern I hear a lot about. Don't get me wrong, praying without ceasing is a command we're called to live in, but I get the idea DeYoung has dealt with a lot of people setting around looking for God's will before moving 

Discovery isn't waiting and praying. 

As a coach once told me in a difficult time; keep moving.


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Sunday, July 6, 2025

The Good and Beautiful God, by James Bryan Smith



The Good and Beautiful God by James Bryan Smith is the first book in the Apprentice Series and focuses on spiritual transformation through knowing the true character of God as revealed in Jesus Christ. Smith argues that many of our struggles stem from false narratives we believe about God, ourselves, and the world. Each chapter addresses a specific false narrative—such as "God is angry" or "God blesses me when I'm good"—and replaces it with a true, biblical narrative grounded in the life and teachings of Jesus.

Smith emphasizes spiritual practices (called "soul training exercises") to help readers internalize these true narratives. His goal is to help believers move from merely trying to be good to training in the way of Jesus, allowing God's love and grace to transform them from the inside out.

Main themes include:

  • God is good, loving, and trustworthy

  • Transformation happens by changing the stories we live by

  • Spiritual practices are essential to growth in Christlikeness

It's a hopeful and practical guide to becoming more like Christ by truly understanding who God is.

Tuesday, April 22, 2025

Aging Matters: Finding Your Calling for the Rest of Your Life, by R. Paul Stevens